Alignment is when your energy (aka your beliefs, thoughts, feelings, and actions) matches your intention.
If you’re having trouble getting into alignment or you feel stuck, it just means that you have patterns of belief, thinking, feeling, and acting that are on loop mode in your energy. Those loops are “blocking” your alignment.
So, the first step to getting into alignment is always illuminating the patterns that are “stuck” in your energy, with deep compassion, and then healing the blocks at the energetic level.
Between the demands of everyday life and that asshole that lives inside your head, it isn’t always easy to see what your blocks are, let alone see them with compassion and grace.
In fact, if you’re anything like the folx I work with each day, you probably do the opposite of compassion and grace.
You blame yourself, assume that “the block” is really just some sort of personal flaw, or that something is really wrong with you.
You might even start to think that you aren’t worthy of anything more than the status quo.
Or you worry that the things you REALLY want in life like…
a fulfilling career…
deep and soul-satisfying relationships…
the confidence to share your gifts with the world…
just aren’t meant to be for you.
Or, when shit really gets bad, you wonder if the Universe is just playing sort of sick twisted joke on you.
But, I promise you, with every fiber of my being, it isn’t any of that.
In fact, the blocks you’re coming up against aren’t personal at all. They aren’t about willpower, worthiness, or any of that other garage you tell yourself.