In a recent conversation, someone shared that they were feeling “unworthy” of creating an “aligned” life. They wanted to know how to feel worthy of what feels right for them.
These types of conversations perk up my ears and can get me on my soapbox faster than almost anything else.
I don’t think I’ll ever be done shouting from the rooftops:
Worthiness is not a thing.
Worthiness is a construct. It is made up by the human brain. There is no bearded dude in the sky deciding that some are worthy and some are not.
Every single person on this planet is unconditionally loved. Our purpose is to let that love in.
And on a more mundane level, pursuing the “feeling of worthiness” is an epic waste of time, energy, and money.
Take a moment to consider how many things you’ve purchased in the hopes that it would make you feel worthy. Maybe it was a car, a house, or a boat. Perhaps it was my personal favorite…courses, certifications, and self help books.
And be honest with yourself about how often you think things like:
I guess I’m just not worthy of {that thing I really want}.
The Universe is testing me…out to get me…punishing me…teaching me a lesson.
I must have done something really terrible in a past life to deserve this.
And then think about how many times you ask yourself questions like:
What is wrong with me?
Why can’t I ever get what I want?
When are things going to work out for me?
Now, imagine that each one of those things is a unit of energy.
Questioning why things never work out = a unit of energy.
Telling yourself that the Universe is testing you = a unit of energy.
Buying yet another course to rot on your hard drive = a unit of energy.
All of those units up.
And not only that, they are like compounding interest.
Questioning why things never work out = unit of energy x 2 x 3 x 4 x 5 x 6… units of energy.
Telling yourself that the Universe is testing you = unit of energy x 2 x 3 x 4 x 5 x 6… units of energy.
Buying yet another course to rot on your hard drive = unit of energy x 2 x 3 x 4 x 5 x 6… units of energy.
It is a snowball effect.
Now, do some rough math on how many units of energy you spend each day on these quests for worthiness.
A week? A month? A year? A decade? A lifetime? Many lifetimes?
How many units is it?
Is it enough to make you feel burnt out? Exhausted? Hopeless? Purposeless?
If you are anything like me, it’s more than enough to suck the life right out of you.
So, no matter how big or small the number is, consider these questions…
What if you channeled all of those units into becoming unstoppable?
How would your life be different if you were not willing to give up on yourself?
What would be possible for you if dropped the investigation of worthiness and just got on with your wild and precious life?
What difference would that make in your life?
Be with that answer. Let it permeate into every fiber of your being. Receive these Truths of unconditional love.
And then decide where you want your units of energy to go.
The math is always adding up. You are the one that chooses which equation you’re working with.
If you decide that you’d rather channel your energy into becoming unstoppable in the pursuit of your purpose, authenticity, and the contribution you are here to make, grab your map and meet me in the portal. That is exactly what we’ll do together.
We’ll start by using your Human Design as an exploration in what it could look like to live authentically and the energy you are contributing to the world. It will all be spelled out in your map.
And then, inside the portal, I’ll show you how to focus and channel your energy into becoming unstoppable.
No fucking around wasting energy trying to prove worthiness. You are done with that now.
Just truth telling and getting out of your own way.
Join me .
If you already have your map , log into your portal and then begin the process of becoming unstoppable in the deconditioning toolbox course. And post in the discussion threads if you need additional guidance.