Have you ever been scrolling through Facebook and come across a “perfect” picture from someone else’s life and felt that immediate “I’m not good enough” feeling?
Your stomach clenches as you fall face first into the compare and despair rabbit hole and you start spinning in thoughts like:
I’m way too fat.
My house is not clean enough.
I don’t make enough money.
My life is a disaster compared to hers.
It’s a toxic cocktail of too much and not enough that can keep you spinning for hours. (days? Weeks? Months? Years? and, oh dear God, decades?)
Not smart enough.
Not thin enough.
Not doing enough.
Not rich enough.
You feel like you are too much and not enough. All at the same time.
It makes you feel cray cray and drives you to do all sorts of cray cray things, like:
- work your butt off to prove to others that you are a “good” mom, employee, wife, sister, daughter, friend
- be sweet and nice, even when you want to roll your eyes, because that is what good girls do
- eat all of your feelings and then go on insane diets
- never let anyone see the “real” you because you are so afraid of judgment and rejection
It totally jacks your vibe and let’s face it:
If jumping through hoops to please others gave you the love, belonging, respect, and validation that you crave, you’d be so punch-drunk that the only emoji you’d ever use would be ?.
Oh, and beating yourself up for being a people pleaser doesn’t work, either. Because, uh, you are a fucking pro at that, so, surely, it would have worked by now, too.
None of that stuff works because it doesn’t address the real problem.
The real reason you compare and despair, take unlimited rides on the too much/not enough roller coaster, and try everything you can think of to be more acceptable to others is because you don’t accept yourself.
Without the foundation of self-acceptance, you will continue to fight against yourself and get lost in a sea of shoulds, musts, have to, and supposed to.
And that is why I created my online workshop called Shadow + Light.
Shadow + Light is an online workshop for women who are ready to accept themselves as they are, not as an act of complacency, but as a devotion to the life they most want to live.
On the surface, it’s about discovering tools for accepting yourself and exploring what that looks like in your day-to-day life.
But really, it’s about shining a light into the shadows of your heart and mind so that you can see, and therefore reclaim, the parts of you that you’ve been conditioned to believe aren’t good enough or that you’ve lost altogether.
It’s about experiencing yourself as Whole and complete, no matter what your external circumstances are.
Not only do I now feel it’s ok to be me, I feel it’s awesome to be me! Seriously this work is amazing and Christie is amazing. ~ Sue C.
As a result of your devotion to practicing self-acceptance, you will experience:
- more self-confidence and courage
- relief from anxiety and self-doubt (no more sleepless nights ruminating on what you “should have” said or done)
- healthier, more vulnerable, and intimate relationships
- more energy to be creative and focus on what really matters to you
- stop negative habits and break old unhealthy patterns
This workshop will provide you with a framework that you can come back to – time and time again – as you integrate all of Who You Truly Are into your life. It will provide a container of discovery that will take you deeper and deeper into your understanding of yourself, both as a spiritual being and as a human being.
Shadow + Light isn’t a quick fix. It’s a set of tools that you will deepen into for the rest of your life.
Shadow + Light also isn’t for the faint of heart. You must be willing to go deep and be uncomfortable.
So, if all that sounds like your jam, I’d love to show you the ropes of radical self-acceptance.
When you buy Shadow + Light, you’ll get immediate access to the workshop.
Shadow + Light Online Workshop Registration Fee: $55.55
My name is Christie Inge and I’m a Master Energy Healer and Intuitive Guidance Counselor.
I help women heal the wounds unworthiness by showing them the ropes of self-love and self-acceptance.
And, I didn’t just decide one day to share what I know so that I could make heaps of money on the internet.
If I wanted to do that, I’d sell weight loss pills or get rich quick schemes.
Instead, I came to this because of the transformation I’ve seen in my own life and in the lives of thousands of women across the globe.
I felt stuck and hopeless in this pattern of low self-esteem and self-hatred. I am now shifting this pattern of low self-esteem and self-hatred. I actually genuinely like and love myself. My inner voice has changed from one of being mean to myself to a voice of being kind, loving, and understanding. ~ Daniela F.
In what feels like lifetimes ago, I overcame:
- binge drinking
- drug addiction
- hooking up with bad boys
- binge eating and body hatred
And I owe it all to my practices of self-love and self-acceptance. My journey has been years in the making, and I am so honored to be able to share this work with you.
So, if you are:
- feeling like you’ve been on a hamster wheel of self-helping and “fixing” yourself (with no end in sight)
- willing to go deep and be uncomfortable (this ain’t for the faint of heart)
- ready to embrace the messy and cyclical nature of growth
Then, go ahead and click the button to register and get immediate access to this life-changing workshop.
Have Questions? Awesome. I’ve got answers.
When is the workshop?
Shadow + Light is an online workshop with immediate access from the moment you register; there are no live dates or calls. You can begin whenever you are ready.
What if I have questions during the workshop?
At the end of each module, you will be invited to share your insights and ask questions. I am happy to answer questions to help clarify the content or questions that are general. However, this workshop does not include coaching or energy healing, which means that questions that are specific to your unique circumstances will require the purchase of a coaching package.
Isn’t accepting myself the same thing as giving up on myself?
This is probably THE biggest fear people have about self-acceptance. Especially those of us who LOVE personal development. And the short answer to that question is no.
The long answer is that giving up on yourself and accepting yourself are direct opposites.
Self-acceptance is about making peace with the present moment by removing your judgments and, then, from this neutral state of mind, consciously and with intention, deciding how you will move forward. And from that place is the only way to make decisions that are in true integrity for you.
Self-acceptance, does, however, require you to give up on the notion that you can control other people’s opinions of you and embody who you are, no matter what other people think.
How much time will the workshop take?
You will gain access to the entire course as soon as you register. If you were to do the whole workshop at one time, it would probably take about six hours. However, I recommend that you divide it up and do one step per day, which will take about 15 minutes each.
Do I need to be tech savvy?
No, the course is hosted on a very simple and easy to navigate website with clear instructions.
What if I don’t like it? Do you offer refunds?
I know, beyond a shadow of a doubt (see what I did there?), that if you complete the exercises in this course, you will experience a deep shift in how you feel about yourself. That’s why I am offering you a 100% refund within 7 days of your purchase. Just send me a copy of your completed worksheets, and I’ll send you a full refund within 72 hours.
What if I have questions not answered here?
If you have questions about whether or not this workshop is a good next step for you, email me at firstname.lastname@example.org.
I must say that Christie is truly gifted in helping me get to a better place ( that “acceptance place” we all want to be in). ~ Frannie K.
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