I was recently having a conversation with my portal community manager, Jen, about the most common question we get about the Incarnation Cross:
But what does this mean about what I should do with my life?
I’ve got some good news and some bad news. And a truth bomb about why the bad news is actually good news.
Let’s start with the bad news.
Your Human Design cannot tell you what you “should” do with your life.
99.9999999% of the time, should is code for conditioned shame.
And Human Design is about letting that shit go so that you can live and work in ways that are filled with satisfaction, success, peace, and delight.
Anytime you hear yourself asking a should question, it’s a clue that, somewhere along the way, you’ve learned that there are rules that you must follow to be a good and worthy person. Either by the people around you, society at large, or, in many cases, religion (including the new age movement).
Should is about winning approval. And that is the antithesis of the Human Design approach to work and life.
At it’s deepest truth, Human Design is a map, guiding you towards self-awareness and purposeful living. It’s about discovering what is true for YOU. And, most importantly, bridging the gap between what you know to be true and what you actually do in the real world.
And here is the good news.
The good news is that your Human Design is FULL of clues about what you have sustainable energy for. It decodes the value you bring – just by being yourself – and helps you see the traits that make your contribution unique. It helps you explore how you make decisions without so much second guessing.
And this is where the bad news becomes good news.
Aftering pairing the map of your Human Design with brave self inquiry and purposeful action, should becomes irrelevant. Winning approval will lose it’s appeal. Wondering about good, bad, right, and wrong become clues that you need to reconnect with your truth, rather than desperate and graspy attempts to please others.
You will no longer default to what someone else thinks, feels, believes, values. It will become your new normal to reference your internal wisdom first and foremost.
You will be so deeply rooted in your gifts, your inner authority, and your wisdom that the pain of conforming will simply cut too deep. Your way of living, being, working will naturally shift as you become the person that is no longer available for choosing should over truth.
Truly – it can only work that way.
That is why I created the Human Design Map & Portal.
The Human Design Map & Portal isn’t just another chart or PDF that leaves you hanging in confusion. It’s a guided experience to living and working in alignment.
Inside, you’ll find:
- the Your Gifts + Message by Design course to help you name and claim the value of your unique contribution,
- the full MAP Method process for turning “blocks” into purposeful action
- unlimited and personalized guidance from me and my team.
The journey of becoming isn’t for the faint of heart. And you don’t have to go it alone. Invite me to be your guide:
Click here to start your Map & Portal journey.